THE NEGATIVITY OF LOVE!!

• LOVE is an extremely important aspect of our lives. Without it we may not achieve many things in life, that is why it is always said that ‘’WITHOUT LOVE, A MAN MAY NOT HAVE WEALTH AND SUCCESS IN HIS HOUSE’’ and ‘’GOD IS LOVE’’, because without GOD we may not be here.
  
  The following is the description of LOVE from the Holy Bible (1COR 13:4-8).
  
  LOVE never hurries, it is always kind.
  It is not jealous, and never boasts of its greatness.
  LOVE is not rude or selfish.
  It is always ready to forgive and forget mistakes we make.
  LOVE is no friend of wickedness, but delights in honesty and truth.
  LOVE is strong and never gives up.
  It never loses its trust in God or its hope for the future.
  LOVE will survive all things because it is everlasting!!
  
  
  Now I am sure you are wondering why I called this pierce of work ‘’the negativity of Love’’. The reason being is that of course, love is a good thing, but it has some negativity since well sometimes it can cause bad things to us or even make us do bad things. Let me make examples:
  
  You are in love. A girlfriend to a boyfriend (or vice versa). The bond between you becomes stronger to an extend that you feel so deeply fond of each other, very seriously. You may even be engaged, you love being together and you enjoy every minute of it. That is how love is, so OVERWHELMING that you will feel as if you are in another mysterious down-to-earth world!!
  Suddenly things changes. You find out that he/she is or has been cheating on you, or he/she dumps you for another person, or because you are carrying his baby. Now you are so hurt that you feel like you can vanish from this cruel world!!
  
  Another example may be that of married couples. He/she may as well cheat on you or even divorce you for another woman/man. He/she may treat you like dirt only to find out that he/she was not doing it before the marriage. You see him/her as a completely changed person, as if you don’t know him/her anymore. He/she may even tell you lots of lies and not tell you that he/she has another child with another woman/man until you find out for yourself! HOW DISGUSTING!!
  
  SEE WHAT I MEAN??
  
  Her you are. Heart broken, no healing, painful, having sleeping and eating disorders, loosing weight, depressed, and even worse, not being able to move on with your life ( because you still love him/her).
  Only to find that he/she is happy, does not worry about anything, and his/her life is so full of joy. He/she hurt you, treated you like a pierce of trash, called you names, told you all those horrible things, but after all that he/she is happy!!!
  
  You did everything for him/her, catered for him/her, loved him/her, cherished him/her, gave him/her everything he/she can ask for in a woman/man, but after all that your life is a living hell!!
  
  WHY DOES IT HAVE TO BE SO UNFAIR??
  
  
  These hurtful things happening to us can make us do bad things. We can commit all sorts of crime-suicide, murder, rape, you name it. We won’t do all these things because we really wanted to, but because we found ourselves not being able to deal with the situation or to control the anger inside us, which drives us to do things we may regret in future.
  
  My dear Brothers and Sisters, I know you may be experiencing such horrible things, or even worse. I also know that you want your life back and to move on, you are trying but it is not easy. You also feel like you are the only person who is feeling so terrible in this world and you are blaming yourself.
• Know that life is not always fair. We really have to experience the negative affectivity in our lives because it is our source of information for survival- we won’t survive without negative emotions.
• Know that God is always there for you and He is love. You may not get enough love from people living with you, but you can always get it from the Almighty, that is why you should be grateful.
• Pray to God everyday and tell him your problems, then close your mouth and let him fight your battles for you because He always does. Trust in the Lord!
• Lastly, be honest in your relationships and respect your partners and everybody else.
  
  
  Okay enough with the hard feelings. I have a very interesting LOVE poem by Anonymous (just came across it in the net and forgot to check the author, sorry) to share with you guys.
  It goes like this……………………………………
  
  WHEN WE TOUCH
  
  When I see you
  I fall to the ground you walk upon
  And warship your feet
  For they were made for me
  And then you fall to the ground with me
  And you take my hands in yours
  My body lulls in ecstasy
  As you kiss my lips so softly
  You lips, oh how they feel
  How they taste against mine
  So warm, so tender
  And they kiss only mine
  And your body
  Your body feels only mine against it
  As it swims with love for me
  My heart beats so strongly
  It can feel yours beating
  Beating for mine
  Beating with mine
  
  You are the love of my life
  You are my one and only
  And when I feel you inside me
  I know that you were always inside me
  You never left my body
  You never left my heart
  You never left my soul
  And when we touch
  We become one even more
  And we drift together in love
  And I learn what I was made for
  
  I Love You
  Always
  
  
  Hope you enjoyed it and you can send it to your loved ones. Always remember that ‘It is not the relationship that makes you happy, but it is about you investing in the relationship’’.
  
  I wish you a good life and lots of love. Don’t forget to tell me what you are thinking by commenting. So from me Tumi….TAKE CARE !!!!!!!!!!